Saturday, August 02, 2008Y
well, these days hasnt been going well for me..
a bit stress up at work.
but it is nothing compared to the problems in friendship.
though i come from a dysfunctional family.
i am really glad i have many good friends around me.
They will be there whenever i need a listening ear.
I can always count on them for some comfort and encouragement.
and it always made me feel better.simply just a sms, a call or having a dinner together will really make me feel better. at least for that point of time.
every week as the days go by, i would always look forward to weekends.
because thats when we will get together, having dinner,chatting,and just by spending some time together without really having to do anything.i feel happy.
whenever one of them is not free and not present ,we will feel incomplete.
its not easy for us from different backgrounds,different classes,having different characters to get together and become friends.i feel so belonged when all of us are together.
no one is an exception.
when ppl are good to me,even though i didnt expressed, i really remember in my heart.
and i always appreciate it and feel that i'm actually quite fortunate having friends who care for me.
its true that ppl seems to remember only the bad,one mistake ruins the whole good you did.
but its not forgotten.
ppl may keep harping on the mistake.its because its not solved yet and ppl dun understand the situation at all.
if ppl understood what really happen,ppl will not keep pondering what really happen and keep saying.
if its a stranger we wont care to even question.
but the fact that it is significant thats why we care.when we asked its because we really care.
i really wondered is it right to give your friends cold shoulder when you never really tell them the reason why.is it fair?
if something made you unhappy, cant you say it out and maybe we can solve the problem together.
its because we treasure friendship that we want to solve the problem.
the problem will not go away by itself if not solve.
it will always be there.its like a wound.if its not treated properly it will just leave a scar and always be there if not treated properly.will it help in anyway?
i had one scar and i really dun wan to have another.
its partly because all of you that i am what i am today.
i didnt give in to depression and i didnt turn bad.
thanks to all my friends out there.
and i am really thankful to have you people ard to give me support and encouragement.
Thank you. ( from the bottom of my heart)=)
and i really think SMS and MSN isnt a good way of communication if you want to discuss impt stuff.because it oftens made ppl misunderstood what you really mean.so just pick up and call!
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